合コンで恋人を見つけることに、純粋な？現代人は抵抗がある。けど、考えてみてほしい。おれのおじいちゃんなんか、お見合いだぞ。合コンよりもっと不自然やんけ。けど今考えても「まあ時代がね」くらいにしか思わない。
かに、当時はムラ社会。大家族で、イエと伝統を重んじた。一番強い繋がりは家族だ。それ故、親が自分の結婚相手を紹介するのは、現代で言えば友達の紹介で付き合いましたー★みたいなノリなんだろう。
そんな今、簡単にオンラインでタダで時空を超えて、自分で相手を探すのは当たり前だろう。
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- Posted at 12 Jan 2012 at 21:22
Pure ? modern people hold resistance to looking for lover through a joint party. But try to think about it. My grandfather found lover through formal marriage interview. It is more unnatural than joint party. But even now when we think about it, we can only say "Well, it is because of the time."
At that time, the society was nonuniform. Big family. Family and tradition were highly regarded. The most powerful link was the family. Thus, that parents introduce marriage partner for someone is just like associating with someone through freinds in modern time. It is like a rule, isn't it?
In the nowaday like this, it is ordinary to look for a lover by oneself simply online which overcomes time and space, isn't it?
At that time, the society was nonuniform. Big family. Family and tradition were highly regarded. The most powerful link was the family. Thus, that parents introduce marriage partner for someone is just like associating with someone through freinds in modern time. It is like a rule, isn't it?
In the nowaday like this, it is ordinary to look for a lover by oneself simply online which overcomes time and space, isn't it?
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- Posted at 12 Jan 2012 at 23:10
Pure (?) modern people feel funny about finding romance through singles' parties. But, think about it. My grandpa got married through arranged marriage. That is even more strange than meeting someone through parties. You may think "well, that was then." True, back then was different. The society was composed of large families and family and tradition were placed at the top. The strongest connections were that of families. Therefore, arranged marriage was just like introducing friends to friends.
Now, it is the norm to find your spouse-to-be online, regardless of where and when, for free at your fingertips.
Now, it is the norm to find your spouse-to-be online, regardless of where and when, for free at your fingertips.
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- Posted at 12 Jan 2012 at 23:33
Simple People nowadays are not feeling right about getting have a mixer. But you will think about it.
my grandpa had the blind date. Was it worse than a mixer, wasn't it? However, now I guess what is time is changing.
At that time, there always has been a close-knit village society. A big family attached a high value to have their house and tradition. A family ties are strongest. Therefore, it's feeling right for parent to fix up for their child. In our time, that is like fixing through friend.
Now today, across the time and free to easier, no wonder to find to get love on one's own.
my grandpa had the blind date. Was it worse than a mixer, wasn't it? However, now I guess what is time is changing.
At that time, there always has been a close-knit village society. A big family attached a high value to have their house and tradition. A family ties are strongest. Therefore, it's feeling right for parent to fix up for their child. In our time, that is like fixing through friend.
Now today, across the time and free to easier, no wonder to find to get love on one's own.
