昨日はカウンセリングに行ってくれてありがとう。でも今朝さっそくAがあなたの隣にいて、当たり前のようにあなたの横にいるのを見て、わたしはよそ者だと感じました。もしあなたと彼女(A)が、常識的なシェアメイトとしての付き合いをしているなら、わたしは何も思いません。でもあなたと彼女は、彼女のメンタルな病気を通じて親しくなりすぎていて、わたしはあなたの妻として不快に感じざるをえません。わたしは、あなたがわたしより彼女を優先させているように感じ、わたしが蔑ろにされているように感じます。
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- Posted at 10 Nov 2018 at 09:33
Thank you for going for the counseling. However, this morning, A immediately was at you side, and being there as it was natural, then I felt A was a foreigner. If you and she are cooperating as ordinal share-mates, I do not feel anything. However, you and she are too intimate through her mental disorder that I, as your wife, had to feel discomfort. I felt you take her as priority than I and I feel I am sided.
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- Posted at 10 Nov 2018 at 09:40
Thank you for coming to counselling yesterday. But this morning, A was right away near you, and when I saw her by your side as if nothing happened, I felt like an outsider. If you are just in a commonsensical sharemate relationship with her, I'm okay with that. But you are becoming too close to her because of her mental illness, and as your wife, I can't help feeling uncomfortable. I feel like you're prioritizing her over me, I feel like I'm neglected.
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- Posted at 10 Nov 2018 at 09:41
Thank you for having the counseling session yesterday.However, when I saw A sitting next to you this morning, you two looked so natural to be together and I felt very lonely. If you two are just normal sharemates, I'm fine. Though, actually I feel quite uncomfortable as your wife with the fact that you two are getting too close through her mental problems. It seems like she has your priority, and you are not paying enough attention to me.
